The reaction to positivity is generally not neutral; it is often extreme:
Timothy 1: 4 I yearn to see you again, recalling your tears, so that I may be filled with joy,
6 For this reason, I remind you to stir into flame the gift of God that you have through the imposition of my hands.
7 For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice but rather of power and love and self-control.
A chosen is a connection point to despair force of misery and constructive force of suffering.
A chosen Catholic is a stone of stumbling or a 'trap,' whose reflected truth provokes opposition from those not walking in that calling. Getting irritated or annoyed is a sign of being entrenched in a negative mindset. The positivity stemming from the flow of grace in chosen people can be irritating to negative thinkers. The expression of this irritation can cause pain in relations, but it is only the connection point for the flow of grace. This is suffering for the Chosen One, but misery for the negative thinker. The realization of suffering is Christ's peace.
The positive flow of grace often triggers negative elements within a person, causing intense pain. This process is frequently described as a 'purging' where light illuminates inner darkness, bringing repressed traumas, emotions, and ego-attachments to the surface for release.
Positive flow of grace in one person can trigger negative elements with another connected person and can cause pain of misery to negative person and pain of suffering to positive person.
Grace flows through human connection. Because any thought, word, or action can forge this connection, a more intense bond results in a greater flow of grace.
The interaction between positive and negative individuals often results in a strong, sometimes volatile impact where positivity acts as a mirror that forces negative individuals to confront their own state, often leading to intense reactions of either admiration or aggression.
The reaction to positivity is generally not neutral; it is often extreme:
When a negative person cannot handle the contrast, they react with anger, passive-aggressive behavior, or, as you mentioned, aggressive hostility to avoid changing their own worldview.
Over time, if the negative person is able to absorb the positivity, they may begin to admire the positive person, leading to a "virtuous cycle" where they start to feel better about themselves and trust others more.